Philosophy
The world isn't going my way: Stoic Wisdom on Control
We often pour our energy into things we cannot change: the weather, the past, or others' opinions. To this, the Stoics pose a clear question: "Is this something within your control?"
🎯 The Dichotomy of Control
The core of Stoic philosophy begins by dividing the world into two distinct realms. The source of suffering is the futile attempt to control the uncontrollable.
Within Your Control
- Your thoughts and judgments
- Your intentions and desires
- Your own actions and choices
Beyond Your Control
- Other people's opinions
- The past and its outcomes
- The weather and the economy
🌿 "It is not events that disturb you..."
To help you find your center, here is a piece of wisdom from the philosopher Epictetus:
"People are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of them." — Epictetus
The moment you shift your judgment to "This has happened. Now, what is the best action I can take?", you cease to be a victim and become the Master of your own life.
🛠️ 3 Steps to Stoic Action
- 1. The View from Above: Imagine looking down at your worries from the sky. This event is just a tiny speck in the vast universe.
- 2. Premeditatio Malorum: Visualize the worst-case scenario. If you can maintain your integrity even then, anxiety transforms into a plan.
- 3. Focus on the Present: Results are out of your hands, but the most honest action you can take right now belongs entirely to you.
"The art of living is more like wrestling than dancing, because it requires being prepared to meet and withstand sudden attacks."
— Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
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Thanks, Universe.